July 30, 2012
The subject says it all. We had a great experience teaching this week. We had been teaching a very old less active man for a long time. He has a strong testimony of the Book of Mormon and of the gospel, with just one tiny flaw. He is a homosexual. He says he cannot come to church and still be that way. He is the nicest older gentleman you could ever meet. He has all the correct ideas. He just marches to the beat of a different drummer.
Well the spirit got very thick
in our lesson, and I decided to address the issue. I told him we all experience
the natural man differently. Some people's natural man could be alcoholism.
Some could be cigarettes. Some people get angry, some people's natural man is
gossip. But just because someone is "prone" to a certain type of natural
man doesn't mean you have to give into the cravings. For me, my natural man
does not include drugs and alcohol. I stay away from those things because I
have no desire to be a part of it. Satan doesn't waste his time on me tempting
me to try drugs, alcohol, or cigarettes. It doesn't work because that is not
part of my nature, or my natural man. It's not true for others. For others that
is a big problem. But the principle is the same. Kind of like what Dumbledore
says at the end of Harry Potter 2, "It is not our abilities (and I'll add
our nature) that determine who we are, it is our choices." Though Harry
was by nature a Slytherin, he chose to be in Griffindor. He thought about this
long and hard. Our nature doesn't determine whether or not we can be in the
church, it is our choices. You can be by nature "gay" and still be a Mormon,
just not a practicing one. Then I invited him to church. He waved it off and
said "no, don't do that to me, I can't." but he turned away just as I
noticed his eyes start to water. The spirit touched his heart, and I believe in
time, he will understand this principle and one day come back. Then after a
moment he said his family (who are all faithful members) have been trying to
get him to come back for years, and he is amazed at the amount of love he is
receiving. He said we have helped him a lot. Faith works. All he needs now is
time.
In other news we have been
teaching another less active lady named and her nonmember boyfriend. They love
having us over. And the Relief Society President says that she has been
sticking visiting teachers on her for years and she believed she will never
come to church. Well this last Sunday they came to church and stayed for the
whole three hours and loved it. Her boyfriend even said that he now believes
that there could be modern day prophets. HAVE FAITH. Well that's my spill for
this week. Have an awesome week!
Elder Bringhurst
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